"Without mercy, man is like a beast. Even if you are hard on yourself, be merciful to others."- Quote from Kenji Mizoguchi's 1954 film, Sansho the Bailiff. On Aug. 20, 2012, I woke at 2:30 a.m. My bed, usually crowded with my wife, Cece, and two cats, Miki and Lulu, was empty. Down the hallway of